Luke 10:38-42It may seem that Jesus preferred prayer over work. But this is not the message of the story of Martha and Mary. The message is "choosing the better part."
Abraham, though he had a wife and household, chose the better part when he decided to accommodate the guests who turned out to be angels.
Jesus chose to suffer and die for our salvation. What better part are we choosing?
If we continue to work actively in the world instead of working for the salvation of people and for the greater glory of God, we have not chosen "the better part." Even for people who say that serving God through the family but are actually too busy to serve God directly are not really choosing the better part.
To choose the better part, we have to consciously and unreservedly choose to follow Jesus above all else, Jesus who is "the way, the truth, and the life." (John, 14, 16) From this basic premise lies what we are to do in this world.
We follow Jesus as "way" when we follow him to his passion, death, and resurrection and carry our own crosses for the salvation of others.
We follow Jesus as "truth" when in spite of the noise this world offers, we choose to heed only to the truths of faith.
Finally, we follow Jesus as "life" when we choose to live in the love that he offers to us, unconditional, pure, and self-giving.
If our decision will redound to bringing others to God's reign and giving the honor and adoration due to God, we have chosen the better part.